You both want this to be fair
You are not fighting. You want to divide things fairly and move on with as little damage as possible.
Fair is harder to calculate than it sounds. Two piles of assets that look equal on paper can be worth very different amounts once taxes, liquidity, and time are accounted for.
We do that math for both of you, so the agreement you reach is one that still looks fair in five years.
What usually needs answering
- An even split on paper that is not even after taxes
- Costs of keeping the house that are easy to overlook
- Retirement accounts that need their own court order
- Support figures nobody has actually stress-tested